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The 60-Second Tantrum Rescue Kit guide and Rescue Button on a phone

Tantrum starting? Start here.

Word-for-Word Scripts for the Moment It's Happening. A 31-page PDF guide plus a Rescue Button mini app for your phone.

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Meltdowns happen in ordinary places

At the park exit. In the cereal aisle. When the tablet turns off. At bedtime. Everyone has a moment like these.

Advice meant for calm

Most parenting advice is written for calm moments, not for the loud one.

Too long to read

In the middle of a meltdown, nobody can read a chapter.

Different words

When each adult says something different, it is harder for a small child to follow.

The 60-Second Tantrum Rescue Kit gives you one short script for each moment, and one method you can use everywhere.

A 31-page guide and a Rescue Button for your phone. $19, one time.

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Is this for you?

It fits if you

  • Have a child between 3 and 7
  • Want short words to use in the moment, not a long course
  • Share the day with a partner, grandparent or sitter who needs the same words
  • Prefer a phone-sized tool you can open in the middle of it

It is not for you if you

  • Are looking for therapy, treatment or a diagnosis
  • Have a child younger than 3 or older than 7
  • Want a long parenting course with hours of video

The 3-Beat Reset

Three short beats you can run in about a minute.

1. Steady

Calm your own body first. About 10 seconds. A calm adult is something your child can borrow.

2. Say

One or two short sentences that name the feeling and hold the plan.

3. Steer

One small next step, with two choices you are happy with. Then wait.

Leaving a placeHearing 'no'Screens offBedtimeClothes and shoesIn the storeSibling grabs a toyBath time

Read one full script

This is how every situation in the kit is written. Read it out loud.

Won't leave a fun place

The moment: The park was great. Shoes are on, the car is waiting, and your child drops to the ground and shouts that they are not going.

1. Steady (0 to 10 seconds)

Feet flat. Breathe out slowly. Drop your shoulders. Take one full slow breath before you say anything.

2. Say (10 to 30 seconds)

Ages 3 to 4: "You don't want to go. Playing is fun. We are leaving now."

Ages 5 to 7: "You're not ready to go. It's hard to stop something fun. We are leaving now, and I'm right here."

3. Steer (30 seconds to 1 minute)

Offer two ways to leave, then step toward the car and wait. "Walk like a bear or hop like a bunny?" or "Hold my hand or carry the water bottle?"

If the answer is more crying: do not add words. Say the same line once more, then wait ten slow seconds. Calm, repeated words are easier for an upset child to follow than new ones.

Skip: countdown threats like "I'm leaving without you" and long explanations of why it is time.

The kit has 8 situations written like this.

What is inside

1. The 31-page PDF guide

Read it on your phone or print it. Method, practice ideas and 8 situations, each with a word-by-word script and short versions for ages 3 to 4 and 5 to 7.

2. The Rescue Button mini app

A separate tool that opens on your phone, with no download and no account. The same scripts in big letters, with a breathing circle, a timer and a private place to note what worked.

The phrase bank page
The phrase bank

20 phrases that tend to help and 10 swaps for phrases that tend to backfire.

The Caregiver Card page
A printable Caregiver Card

One page with the 3 beats and the best phrases, to share with grandma, the sitter or school.

The What Worked log page
A two-week What Worked log

Notice what helps. Handy to bring to your pediatrician, too.

The ages-at-a-glance page
An ages-at-a-glance table

The same method with different dials for ages 3 to 4 and 5 to 7.

See inside

Real pages from the guide, ready to read on your phone or print on US Letter paper.

A word-by-word script page
A word-by-word script
The one-minute clock page
The one-minute clock
The phrase bank page
The phrase bank
The Caregiver Card page
The Caregiver Card

A parenting book vs. this kit

A typical parenting bookThe Rescue Kit
When you use itRead when things are calmOpen it while it is happening
LengthChaptersOne short script per moment
The wordsGeneral adviceWord-for-word lines for ages 3 to 4 and 5 to 7
On your phoneText you scroll throughRescue Button: big cards, breathing circle, timer
For other caregiversHand over the bookOne printable Caregiver Card

The 60-Second Tantrum Rescue Kit

Scripts for the hard moment, ages 3 to 7

$19 USD, one-time

  • 31-page PDF guide with the 3-Beat Reset
  • 8 word-by-word scripts
  • Short versions for ages 3 to 4 and 5 to 7
  • The Rescue Button mini app for your phone (no download)
  • Phrase bank, Caregiver Card and What Worked log
  • Instant access, private download page
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Questions

How do I get the kit?

Right after payment you are taken to a private page with your PDF download and your private Rescue Button link.

What ages is it for?

Ages 3 to 7. Every script has a short version for ages 3 to 4 and one for ages 5 to 7.

Is this therapy or medical advice?

No. It is a set of practical parenting ideas. It does not provide therapy, treatment or diagnosis and does not replace your pediatrician or any qualified professional. If you are worried about your child's health or safety, talk to your pediatrician. If anyone is in danger, call 911.

What is the Rescue Button mini app?

A separate mini app that opens in your phone's browser, with no download. It is not a copy of the PDF: it is a quick-use tool for the moment it is happening. You open it, tap the big button, pick the age and the situation, and follow three big cards: Steady, Say, Steer. You can add it to your home screen.

Do I need an account or an app store?

No. There is no account and no download from an app store. You open your private link and, if you like, add it to your home screen. What you save in it stays on your own device.

Will it work for my child?

Every child is different, and we cannot promise a result. The scripts are practical starting points that many parents can use right away, and you can change the words to fit your family.

Can I print it?

Yes. It is a PDF in US Letter size. The Caregiver Card and the What Worked log are made to print.

What if it doesn't work for me?

Email us within 7 days of your purchase and we will refund you.

The next hard moment will come

A father sitting on the living room rug hugging his small daughter, seen from behind

It will probably be at the park gate, in the cereal aisle or at bedtime. No kit can promise a calm afternoon.

What it can give you is a plan: three small beats, a few short words and a button on your phone, so you are not searching for what to say while everyone is watching.

Have the words ready before the next one.

Steady. Say. Steer.

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Practical parenting ideas, not therapy or medical advice. If anyone is in danger, call 911. This kit is not a substitute for care from your pediatrician or another qualified professional.
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